why some marriages fail

Marriages are made in heaven but are experience on earth.

The best thing that can ever happen to a man and woman is to have a successful marriage life. Any man or woman that thinks he or she is successful in life but fail in his or her marriage is not yet successful.

Out of 100% couples in America only 10% last the reason why there is divorce here and there, is because something supreme is absence in the marriage which is the Holy Spirit.

Any marriage that is not built on Holy Spirit can fail any time, because it was not built in a solid foundation.

The fruit of the spirit is; [Gal 5:22]

Love

Joy

Peace

Long-suffering

Gentleness

Goodness

Faith

Meekness

Temperance                                                                                                             

Once the Holy Spirit exist in any marriage or relationship, it cannot fail because there will be the manifestation of it fruit in that marriage.

      It is that spirit that produces

LOVE: love cannot fail it covers all things. Love won’t allow you to hurt your spouse, by cheating on him or her beating her etc.

Love is the first fruit of the spirit because it is the greatest and it produces others.

It also produces joy; whether you have or not you still have joy in your home.

 it  also produces peace; no matter what happen you still live in peace with your husband or wife.

   It also produces LONG-SUFFERING: in other word patience, it is the spirit that produces patience it makes you have patience with your spouse, even when what you are expecting from your spouse is not forth coming, you still love and cherish her, and so you can’t go for a divorce. It is patience that control Desperation and help each of them not to do anything nasty out of desperation there by saving the marriage.

  It is the spirit that produces.

GENTLENESS: it makes each one tender and amiable

   It is the spirit that takes away wickedness and produces GOODNESS, How can I leave some one that has always been good to me. The Holy Spirit make you believe it is perfect to share everything you have with your spouse.

It is the spirit that help you believe in your spouse, FAITH, it help you believe in your marriage that even when something are not working you believe they will.

It is the spirit that produces MEEKNESS: in every marriage, it makes each one humble and submissive to each other

It also produces TEMPERANCE.

A marriage without the Holy Spirit cannot manifest all this, and it can easily fail

      In all this fruit, LOVE emerge as the greatest, you cannot manifest the others without love because the others come from love

It is the Holy Spirit that makes you love your spouse more and more

Any marriage or relationship that is controlled by the Holy Spirit cannot and will never fail, because it possesses every Quality that any marriage needs to survive and becomes admirable and successful.